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Traditional wedding Experience

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life. Would you like to have a wedding in a unique place in the natural center of Sri Lanka for an unforgettable opportunity for you and your guests? Get ready for a traditional Sri Lankan wedding or a simple ceremony on a hill surrounded by beaches, tea fields, beaches, jungles, and many other places. You have a choice …!

- Poruwa ceremony

Of the many traditional events that take place during a Buddhist wedding, the Poruwa ceremony is the most important. Therefore, it is strictly controlled by Nekath. Poruwa Sirita (Poruwa Ceremony) seems to have existed in Sri Lanka before the introduction of Buddhism in the 3rd century BC. That it existed. Over the centuries, many innovations have been introduced into Poruwa Siritha. Until the British introduced marriage registration into the law in 1870, Poruwa Siritha was considered a valid practice for registered marriages.

- Traditional Sri Lankan Wedding

Traditional Sri Lankan weddings are unique to the country itself, and over the years Sri Lankan wedding customs and rituals have been passed down from generation to generation. This part describes everything about Sinhalese Buddhist weddings.

The process and its traditions have been carried out for generations. A real Buddhist wedding in Sri Lanka has many elements borrowed from the Hindu tradition. Elements such as horoscopes and formal family suggestions are important parts of both cultures.

Although modern marriages are love marriages, most South Asian countries, including Sri Lanka, still give first place to tradition and religion.

- Order of the Sri Lankan Wedding Ceremony
  • The Poruwa Ceremony is strictly guided by Nakato. The ceremony begins when the proposed auspicious time comes.
  • First, the bride and groom are asked to stand on a wooden table that represents their home, and Ashtaka joins. Ashtaka is a narrator who describes Gatha.
  • The groom and her family gather on the right side of Poruwa, and her bride and her family stand on the left side. The bride and groom step into the platform from their right foot to the sound of the drums. Then they greet each other together in the palm of their hand.
  • The shilpadhipathi provides them with a collection of betel leaves. The couple must accept it and return it to him.
  • The bride and groom will be presented with a tray containing seven separate bundles of betel leaves, each with a coin. This is done to bring good luck to the new couple.
  • The bride and groom need to take turns picking up the leaves from each bundle and dropping them on the platform.
  • The Holy Thread (Pirithnula) is tied to the bride and groom’s pinky by the bride’s maternal uncle. Then he pours holy water (Pirithpan) over their tied fingers.
  • The groom puts the ring on the bride’s hand, then the bride puts the ring on the groom’s hand
    this custom is influenced by Western culture.
  • The groom gives the bride a white cloth about 16m long. In return, the bride gives her mother a piece of cloth.
  • The bridegroom’s mother presents the bride with a red cloth sari and a sari jacket.
  • The bride presents a bunch of leaves to the groom and worships him. After that, the couple resigns from Poruwa.
  • Then a group of four young women sings Jayamangala Gatha to a newlywed standing with their family.
  • The wedding cake is cut after the basic traditional ritual is completed. In the original tradition, rice pudding (Kiribath is a special dish among all the sweets that are part of the wedding spread.
  • The bride’s mother feeds the bride and groom’s rice pudding, and the groom’s mother gives each one a sip of milk.
  • The newlyweds and witnesses (one of whom must be a Sri Lankan citizen) must sign the marriage certificate in the presence of a registrar.

- Homecoming

A few days after the Sri Lankan wedding is over, a “homecoming ceremony” will be held. At this ceremony, her bride wears the red sari given to her at the Poruwa ceremony. This is a new custom included in Sinhalese Buddhist marriage.

This means that the groom “takes home” the new bride. Once upon a time, this literally happened when the bride walked from home to the groom’s house when she got married. This is a Sri Lankan wedding tradition and another epic celebration with lots of dancing, drinking, dining and socializing.

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